Friday, August 2, 2019

Return to Sanibel

Finally!


Zoe here after almost 2 years....


Papa's got a lovely lap
I bet you thought I forgot how to type, right?  Well, not exactly, but without Phaedra yipping at my heels to get busy, it's been really hard.  I bet some of you know what it's like to lose a best friend and how you just look at the world differently.  Anyway, lots has happened since Phaedra left me and I think it's time I to get this "traveling dog" back on the road again.

So, I guess the most radical happening is that my Mama just knew I needed another sister.  I could have told her that I was just fine on my own with getting all the treats, all the attention, all the love. She knew better, though, I guess.


So, I wasn't really too worried because Papa said he absolutely didn't want a big dog OR a puppy.  So no worries, right?  Wrong!  Mama knew what a wonderful place I lived in when I was first born, so that was the first place she looked at for a new dog.  Of course, fate usually intervenes, and it did that day, too.  At the top of the page, "We've Got Puppies!" jumped out at her.  She tried to resist and kept away for about a week.  Then, one day, she told Papa that this little puppy had stolen her heart. That was IT!
My 2-legged mom

Dakota and her mom

Last December, Dakota became a part of my family, and one week later we left for Sanibel.  With a puppy!!! OMG, you have no idea!  At least she was  smaller than I was.  For a month!


What a job I had teaching her what she needed to do!  She's still working on it.  It's really good that I am 'Zoe, the Great" and know how to teach her everything.  I guess I had a great teacher myself for 9 years so I'm trying, but Dakota is challenging, believe me!





This is the second year in Sanibel with Dakota.  She's huge!  She's a Border Collie mix, and she "ain't small"!  You'll see.  She's fifty pounds and big.  I can walk right under her and she doesn't even know.

For the first time ever, we rented a house on Sanibel and didn't live in our RV.  That was a challenge for Mom, especially, because we had to ALL ride in the Subaru - tons of suitcases, two dogs, everything we needed for 3 months - plus both of our large cans of food.  (We wouldn't get into the car until we saw our food on board, of course!)

When we ride in the truck with the camper, anything goes!  Paradise!

So, this year was really different on Sanibel.  Have you ever heard of Red Tide?  It's a really, really bad thing that happens to water ways when the environment gets out of balance. These pics are all from the beaches of Sanibel or the water nearby.  When we got there, the months of dead animals washing up on the beaches had passed.  The legacy of this Red Tide is that there were VERY few birds on Sanibel.  If there aren't fish for the birds to feed upon, the birds go away until the food returns.

Clean-up on beaches
Dead Sea Turtles wash up on beach
One of the things that made Mom cry was learning about all the dead or sick Sea Turtles.  You know, Sea Turtles can't reproduce until they are mature.  That means that a Loggerhead Sea Turtle has to be 25-35 years old before it can mate.  The majority of Sea Turtle deaths this year were overwhelmingly males.  They eat fish and other food while they come to shore - the females don't which is good.  But Mom's friend who is part of the Sea Turtle Watch says she's afraid that generations of Sea Turtles have been lost. The one fortunate thing is that female Sea Turtles do not eat as they come in to shore to nest.  And, the hatchlings hatch and scurry to the water, then swim as quickly as possible, not eating anything, until they reach the Sargasso Sea.  They float around there until they are larger juveniles which can be until they are 10 years old or so.
Whale shark washed ashore

Guess what! These hatchling sea turtles (which once into the ocean/gulf start swimming as fast as they can) and go all the way out to the Sargasso Sea and cross the Atlantic all the way to the Azores in less than a year sometimes.  I bet Dakota and I could swim that far, too, don't you think?

That's another story of Mom's but you can check it out if you want to here. It is kinda cool about how these little turtles live inside this floating island of seaweed going around the Atlantic spending what scientists call their "Lost Years"!

So, usually Mom shows tons of pictures to us.  Well there weren't tons birds this year. But, here's some of what we did.  Hope you enjoy the sights!


Zoe in the Catbird Seat
Dakota, Zoe, and the "kitchen sink"!
















Rented house on Sanibel


Dog yard







Staghorn Fern growing on palm
There were over 80 orchid blooms in our back yard

Life is good with a Papa like this!



Hope you'll join us on Sanibel next winter!  For now, may every day you have be a surprise and a blessing!

Zoe and Dakota (and Phaedra, their "spirit dog"!










Alan's 50th Wedding Anniversary Reflections



 What???  Fifty Years Already?  Hard to Believe!

 

by Alan Parker

August 2, 2019





Memorial Day, 1967, Ralph a college friend, set up a “date” with his high school friend, Linda Susan Babcock. He told me that she  wanted to meet a nice Jewish boy!  I fit the bill, he said!

She had come home from Michigan State University and she brought her best college friend with her. We had her mother’s  famous strawberry shortcake which sealed the deal for me!  It was love at first bite. Oh!!! I mean love at first sight. Linda was the neatest, cutest and sexiest girl I had ever met. It took me a while to convince her that I was OK. 



It was 50 years ago today that this beautiful young lady said  “I do” and made me the happiest geek in the world. We are standing under a huppa that Linda’s Dad made. It was a great pleasure and honor for me to join her family. 






As we left the reception, I never dreamed what a wonderful adventure we would have before us.

Camping has been a huge part of our life and thanks go to Anne and Owen DuVall who convinced us to get camping equipment during our first year of marriage. We have camped all over the US, Canada, and Europe. How lucky we have been!

Living in Germany for 5 years was a fantastic experience and our wonderful daughter, Anne, was born in Frankfurt. Moving to Chapel Hill was a great choice and we both had successful careers. The best part has been the birth of our granddaughter, Parker. It’s exciting watching her grow up.

Since we retired in 2007, what a time we had as resident volunteers at Ding Darling NWR. Birds! Birds! Birds! We still have so many friends from everywhere we have been, and Sanibel friends are especially dear. Thanks to all of you for making all of these adventures wonderful and for keeping in touch with us.


When we left our wedding to start our journey, we did not know what was ahead. We are now starting another journey, and just like 50 years ago today, we don’t know what the future holds. The only thing we know for sure is that whatever happens, we will face it together. 


Thank you Linda, for being a fantastic partner, parent, friend, and love. I look forward to the years to come. 

Your guy,

Alan

Friday, June 23, 2017

Zoe's Sad News




Zoe here coming to you from Chapel Hill:

With a very heavy heart, I want to let you know that Phaedra left my world on April 27, 2017 after a very brief illness.  For reasons unknown, Phaedra went into kidney failure our last week on Sanibel.  We rushed her home and she spent one night in the Triangle Veterinary Speciality Hospital.  When we learned that nothing could be done to help her, she came home to spend her last day with the family who loved her with all their might and at the place she had known for 14 years.  She spent the day being pampered and loved and then went peacefully across the Rainbow Bridge.

May Phaedra's memory always be for a blessing!



Phaedra will still be traveling by my side on every trip that I take with the folks.  I am sure that she will find a way to "help" me get into trouble and to annoy me like she sometimes did.  I am going to continue to write our blog, and she will just be my "ghost dog writer" who maybe encourages me to do things that scare me a bit - (she always did give me courage, you know)!

I loved Phaedra from the first time I saw her.  She even let me chew on her with my sharp baby teeth! I want to give you a sample of the things we did together over my 9 years by her side, so keep looking if you want to see some of the places she took me to.

My new sister, Phaedra.  She wasn't sure about me at first, but then she loved me to pieces forever after!  Sometimes she'd look at Papa and Mama as if to say, "Can't we leave her by the side of the road?"

Phae is thinking, who is this strange baby who sleeps and eats, and chases me.  Lucky me to have a sister like her!


Phae taught me some "Bad Habits" in Rocky Mountain National Park

Dinner time snacks!  We are so glad Papa is the cook in the family!

Yummy 9th Birthday to Zoe
Hiking around Bear Lake at RMNP but no bears!
Garden of the Gods? No, Garden of the Dogs in Colorado Springs, CO

Will it move?  What is it?
Where are we again?  Are we lost?
Not so sure I like swimming!

Love those cool mountain days!
Myrtle Beach sunset

Who me? I didn't do anything!

Happy Holidays!

That was mine!!! What are you doing?

This is perfect December weather, right?

You're leaving us alone???

Papa always shares AND drops treats!

Are we lost?  Moses Cone Manor, Blue Ridge Parkway

Guard dogs!  GRRR!

Phaedra: always up for a game!

Spring time in Blowing Rock gave us flowers to smell along the way.

Where did that Zoe go now?

Yum!  Birthday Yogurt at Zebra on Sanibel!  14 years young!

Phae was too smart!  She wouldn't go swimming in this COLD river with me at  Rocky Mountain National Park!

The shore of the Yellowstone River in Billings, MT and the only toy we have to chase is a rock!


Roll on, River!  Roll on...
You want WHAT?
Home at last!     Phaedra's special spot where I said goodbye to the best sister anyone ever had!  

You will always be by my side, Phaedra!  We all loved you to the moon and back!